Im not gay but my boyfriend is !!
for many years I was called gay and personally couldnt have cared less. I have a inside knowledge that even those we consider gay are simply males that would fuck a hole in a couch if the situation presented itself.
Being gay doesnt necessarily mean physical - but includes the emotional an spirit of another individual. There are many gay couples that for some reason or another are not able to have physical contact - but truly do love one another. Cats aside LOL
besides - I personally like just having my wife being 'gay' - adds to the fun of seeing new friends when I come home and open the bedroom door