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				Originally posted by HotInHere  
 
 
 Normally I have a big problem with her because of the way she treats Taylor (my bf) but we were really nice to her on Mom's Day. 
			
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 HIH...I had huge problems with my mother-in-law initially.  I couldn't figure out what the hell to do...until I accidentally cracked the code.  The woman wanted me to call her "Mom."  That's it.  Once I started doing that, all was well.
It may be the same for you, HIH.  Not calling her "Mom," I mean necessarily...but a "something" that she wants.  Once she gets it, the whole relationship changes.  You can't change a lifetime of her relationship with Taylor, but it might be something as simple as her wanting some household help that she feels she should be getting from her child/children.
I know that if you showed up and cleaned MY house like that...I'd KILL for you! 
