Everyone in my family knows. They have always known I think. I never tried to hide it from them but then again, my dad is super open minded. We grew up with Playboys laying around and I remember sitting with ma father, asking all kinds of questions about what the people in the pictures were doing and what things were and my father was never embarrassed or too prude to answer. He always told me things the way they are.
My now ex-boyfriend always had a problem with it though. I was honest with him from the beginning, and he's okay I guess but he doesn't want people to know.
As far as my co-workers (I have a regular day job), most know my best friend is a porn-chick (
http://www.angeliquexxx.com) and many of my clients know as well because I have become friends with most of them. They don't know I shoot porn, but they know I do a lot of photography including nudes.
My dad always says: "As long as it's not your ass out there... you can do whatever you want in this business!" But if I ever decide to tell him I have modeled back when I was 50lbs lighter and 7 years younger, he wouldn't care, I'm sure!
Sophie.