dude - I would never have gotten married if I didn't trust my wife. any doubt and I would have waited or not considered it. if you are looking at someone and cant figure out if its you or them - take time off from dating and work it out. there are times we project our own infidelity onto someone else instead of blaming ourselves, while other times we simply aren't secure enough to even trust another human being.
If it is really your spidey senses tingling then why the hell would you even consider staying around?
trust is the foundation not necessarily love to any long lasting - complete - and satisfying marriage.
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fools, because they have to say something." - Plato
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