I like this thread. This is important for everyone. There should be no guilt shame or bad feelings about sex. The best thing I've done for myself is to resist the idea that making porn is degrading. fuck that. you know how much trust and confidence it takes to produce porn with your partner?
Nina and I just started this new site
http://www.feelfreenyc.com for people who are sexually open-minded. We're building a community of men and women who can talk or not talk about sex, post pics write articles and chat on a message board. All so we can accept and better integrate sex in our lives.