To clarify I in no way mean anything like cheating or killing someone or closet homosexual or anything extreme.
Can secrets be healthy for a marriage? Like saying you have $500 in savings when it's really $1000 and you suprise her with a gift. Or she says she only had one glass of wine before you got home but she had three and no wonder she is so horny! Or something like stopping at your favorite store to window shop on your way home from work but saying instead you came straight home.
Sure it could be constured ad white lies but my question is - in marriage where everything is shared, sometimes witholding information can give you some kind of sense of independance.
Just some thoughts for the day, there's nothing I'm hiding!
