Never had a GF try and change me, but the wife that is a different story.
My wifes all tried to change me right after the wedding.
Boy were they in for a shock.
My last wife wanted me to change so many things I had to ask her why the fuck she married me. Quit the porn biz she says, Not fuckin likely I says
I'm 43 and there are some things that are not going to change no matter what, for nobody.
I am who I am
