Need Help With SEO

[crash9811]

I have a site that is about two months old and im trying to get into google with the search term "sex toys".I dont know how i did it but i got picked up by google my first month and can find my site under "sexy toy products" and "adult sexy toy products" but i can not find my site under "sex toys" or "adult sex toys".I have not spent any money on advertiseing my site and i am trying to see how far i can go with out spending any money.Does trading links hurt or help your website?I just dont like the looks of having all them links on my site.I would like to know how all them sites ranking well for "sex toys" do it when they dont have trade links on there site.I woud like to hear any tips,tricks or advise from anyone that can help.Take a look at my site and tell me what you think.
Thank You
http://www.sexytoyproducts.com

[adultsitecms]

Hi there crash9811,
Let me clear out something for you: The term 'sex toys' is more common than 'sexy toy products' and 'adult sexy toy products', meaning that more sites are focused having 'sex toys' as a keyword. As there are more websites optimized for 'sex toys' you will get a lower position for this one than for the other two that you mentioned.
Good luck with your website!

[student4ever]

This thread is little old and no clue if crash has come back, but given a reply today... I'll dive in...

As was said, ranking for "sex toys" is going to be a major effort - it's going to be pretty competitive for that particular two word phrase. You can use tools like WordTrackers free keywords tool and Google adwords tools to find possible keywords that would match your content.

Once you've got some good keywords identified, you'll want some inbound links using those keywords, preferably going to pages using the specific keywords. Someplace... I've got a blog post about this stuff...

One good way to get inbound links, based on your keywords is to visit the site in my sig - Adult Articles. You can write articles about your site, products, etc.. and get two keyword links in the article body and two more in a resources section. We're finding people getting traffic from articles in 1-2 weeks and a couple of them are ranking for good keywords already.

[Linda_Ml]

start with Googles SEO tools like adwords, webmaster tool and analytics will help you to make your site Google friendly.

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