Whoops, left out part of my point...
Don't try to force things, just let them happen...
go out and have fun, but don't go looking for Mr. Right, or he'll duck out the side door while Mr. Wrong takes his place.
My dates right after the divorce were a disaster because having been with the same woman for 14+ years, I had a feeling of needing that normally of a relationship again...and I ended up sabotaging myself...once I'd settled down and just had fun, my current girlfriend came into my life and it's been amazing and doesn't feel forced
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