Lets talk about L-O-V-E again.. inside now!
Im the guy that usually gets attracted by the looks first. After that, if I find out the person I am attracted to also have a beautiful heart and soul, I might fall in love.
This is almost always the order for me. Outer Beauty -> Inner Beauty.
For some others, they are attracted to the inner beauty and dont care about whats on the outside.
And we all know that love can blossom from friendship aswell. Where you may have been friends with someone for a long time, and suddenly it turns to romance and love.
With those things said:
do YOU think its possible to make ANYONE fall in love with you?
I think that its possible, just not sure how often it happens. Because usually most are like me, they go by the outer beauty/attraction first. After all, its what we see FIRST. Also, we have what we prefer or get turned on by, for example, some women have a preference of black men. Some men only like asian women. Some women like their guys to fit into their "niche" that they are used to date. Same thing with men.
So if you do not fit into the "niche" that the person you WANT to fall in love with you, you need to have the chance of showing them your inner qualities, and then charm them that way. Hope this makes sense... Its a bit late and I wanted to throw up a LOVE thread here.. hehe.
I say it is possible. In most cases. But then Im also sure there are some women that simply have their niche and are 100% focused on finding a man that fits into it, that they do not let anyone else have the chance.
Lets have a discussion about this and LUV here on Xnations.
Post what you think.
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