Is It Better Or Worse To Marry Young?

[Kenny B]

It's all about when you meet the person you feel would make a good life partner, I've met her 3 times now, maybe this time it'll be for keeps... Or maybe I should learn my lesson and stop buying diamond rings... time will tell;-)

[DrChango]

Originally Posted by Kenny B

It's all about when you meet the person you feel would make a good life partner, I've met her 3 times now, maybe this time it'll be for keeps... Or maybe I should learn my lesson and stop buying diamond rings... time will tell;-)

got my fingers crossed for you=)

[SexArise]

in my early teen years i always wanted to get marry no later than 22, now i am pass did and wish i did. i dont think i've miss much seeing how life is now if i was married man

[SexArise]

Originally Posted by Kenny B

It's all about when you meet the person you feel would make a good life partner, I've met her 3 times now, maybe this time it'll be for keeps... Or maybe I should learn my lesson and stop buying diamond rings... time will tell;-)

all the best, however your last statment seems more logical

[thruma]

I think the ancient Celt's were very wise.

They had marriage for a year and a day. When that time was up the marriage was over and if you wanted you could marry again for another year and a day or for eternity.

I don't see a need for legal marriage of any kind. All that does is make money for the gov and lawyers.(licenses, certificates and divorce fees)

Get married for the ceremony of whatever religion you follow. If you're not religious then just live together.

Here in Canada you're common law married just by living together so I really can't see why I should go to city hall to do it.

[SexArise]

Originally Posted by thruma

I think the ancient Celt's were very wise.

They had marriage for a year and a day. When that time was up the marriage was over and if you wanted you could marry again for another year and a day or for eternity.

I don't see a need for legal marriage of any kind. All that does is make money for the gov and lawyers.(licenses, certificates and divorce fees)

Get married for the ceremony of whatever religion you follow. If you're not religious then just live together.

Here in Canada you're common law married just by living together so I really can't see why I should go to city hall to do it.

interesting.

[Cyndalie]

Originally Posted by thruma

I think the ancient Celt's were very wise.

They had marriage for a year and a day. When that time was up the marriage was over and if you wanted you could marry again for another year and a day or for eternity.

I don't see a need for legal marriage of any kind. All that does is make money for the gov and lawyers.(licenses, certificates and divorce fees)

Get married for the ceremony of whatever religion you follow. If you're not religious then just live together.

Here in Canada you're common law married just by living together so I really can't see why I should go to city hall to do it.

Heinlein readers understand the concept of "Contract Marriage" - Marriages or civil unions deemed for an amount of time and inclusive of a prenup that can be renewed or dissolved after the period is up. In this agreement is a section for children and how they will be cared for during and after, dealbreakers, and other agreements. This makes much more sense than how expensive 'divorces' can be.

[DrChango]

Originally Posted by Cyndalie

Heinlein readers understand the concept of "Contract Marriage" - Marriages or civil unions deemed for an amount of time and inclusive of a prenup that can be renewed or dissolved after the period is up. In this agreement is a section for children and how they will be cared for during and after, dealbreakers, and other agreements. This makes much more sense than how expensive 'divorces' can be.

Why are all the ladies who read Heinlein already taken!?!?!?!

Niven carried the "contract" concept into his Known Space universe, and it worked well with his ideas about population control and emigration off-world