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Originally Posted by EmporerEJ
Well, I'm 42 and still single (And looking)
Is it time yet?
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wouldn't matter if you were 90 .. never rush .. cus if you do, you'll miss some of the tell tale signs that you weren't or were meant for each other ...
My first wife was my true love, we were together for 8 years, college sweet hearts, her dad was my dentist since I was like 10, her sister was best friends with my sisters .. I knew her family most of my life, damn her parents still live a block away from mine .. we were meant to be together .. we just not meant to mix with others ... Our marriage ended because others got involved and since both of us were starting our carreers we didn't spend nearly enough time together .. well wouldn't you know her mentor worked her well .. he'd leave suttle hints that I didn't respect her, or that I was off doind something not right .. the fucker did a real good job at it . till finally one day we both cracked ... And splits ville ...
the point of this story is, had we spent more time together, really gave our relationship the time and attention it deserved rather then fly thru life thinking that we're fine cus we're married .. would of probably saved our marriage .. we didn't get devorced cus we didn't love eachother .. we got devorced because we became different people away from eachother, which out wieghed being together ....