How many partners...

Funbrunette · 06-13-2004, 11:28 AM

Why does this question always come up? When you start dating someone or when a bunch of people are together drinking and having fun! Does it matter?!?

How many have YOU been with? hehehehehe!

I've only had sex once in my life (when I got pregnant with Ryan)

sweet7 · 06-13-2004, 11:51 AM

wouldn't YOU like to know eh!?

Funbrunette · 06-13-2004, 11:54 AM

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Originally posted by sweet7
wouldn't YOU like to know eh!?

I think I DO! Hehehehehe!

sweet7 · 06-13-2004, 05:45 PM

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Originally posted by Funbrunette
I think I DO! Hehehehehe!

06-13-2004, 06:15 PM

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Originally posted by Funbrunette
Why does this question always come up? When you start dating someone or when a bunch of people are together drinking and having fun! Does it matter?!?

How many have YOU been with? hehehehehe!

I've only had sex once in my life (when I got pregnant with Ryan)

I think to answer your questions FB

Q. Why does this question always come up?
A. When a couple start dating and the topic moves towards sex, people start to wonder
if they will be the first for that partner or not.

Q. Does it matter?
A. 1) Yes if the person asking the question is thinking / hoping of a more longer term relationship with that person and is concerned about STD's

A. 2) No as there are some events that are best kept closed.

Q. How many have YOU been with?

A. Being open about the number of partners one might have had is answered by; "No as there are some events that are best kept closed."

It is also that a man may have had many sex partners, but he doesn't want marriage to a woman who has sex with many men.

Reason behind this I feel that it is becuase the couple may share some nice memories and common interests, but IF the relationship fails, love is replaced with sex
and experimentation and IF love fails, you or your partner maybe wanting to be loved and looks elsewhere to be loved.

Stay healthy, be safe and have a great day

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Evil Chris · 06-13-2004, 09:37 PM

I lost count after 1.

jscott · 06-13-2004, 09:38 PM

i'm at either 12 or 13 and ready to add to that my whole life

Funbrunette · 06-14-2004, 12:27 PM

Come on!!!!

dokk · 06-14-2004, 03:17 PM

I'm still looking for #1

;-)

McAttack · 06-14-2004, 04:08 PM

I tend to stay away from that topic. Anytime it comes up, I just say something like "Doesn't matter, this is the only one that matters" and embellish that idea. If it's about STDs and stuff, fine I'll even go ahead and do a test if I have to. A number won't say if you're clean or not.

I had a girl that was a bit concerned because of the industry that I work in. Even though I explained that I don't do content, and even at the shows, I don't really care about that stuff, she didn't like it. She thought every day was an orgy. So eventually we broke up.

Vid Vicious · 06-14-2004, 06:38 PM

It's a good thing Funb can only count till one ..

I've had 2 in my life

06-15-2004, 02:38 AM

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Originally posted by McAttack
I tend to stay away from that topic. Anytime it comes up, I just say something like "Doesn't matter, this is the only one that matters" and embellish that idea. If it's about STDs and stuff, fine I'll even go ahead and do a test if I have to. A number won't say if you're clean or not.

I had a girl that was a bit concerned because of the industry that I work in. Even though I explained that I don't do content, and even at the shows, I don't really care about that stuff, she didn't like it. She thought every day was an orgy. So eventually we broke up.

i have used that line over 0 times "Doesn't matter, this is the only one that matters"

Nano · 06-15-2004, 07:55 AM

More than what my ex-gfriends know.

Raziel · 06-15-2004, 10:45 AM

i have been a really bad boy ...........

btw not to many girls answering

sweet7 · 06-15-2004, 11:23 AM

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Originally posted by Nano
More than what my ex-gfriends know.

LOL!

pornJester · 06-15-2004, 11:51 AM

I plead the 5th

GoodChris · 06-15-2004, 12:10 PM

I'm still a virgin, our children were immaculate conceptions.

Don Soporno · 06-15-2004, 12:22 PM

ok, Im not gonna get into to many details but me and my girlfriend have been together for many many years and both of us are very sexual and adventurous people and have had the pleasure of experiancing many beautiful women together. No specific number but its pushing 50, as far as my girl goes I would have to add men and women and I really dont want to know the exact number.

Guys are weird about this, we want a woman who is sexual and aggressive but just turned that way. Pretty much a lady in the street but a freak in the bed but at the same time we only want them to have been that way with us and not ever have been that way with anyone else...LOLOL... Come on guys get real, do you think a woman just magically one day says "Hey, I think I will be a whore as long as I am with this guy."

Here is a little tip for guys looking for a woman. If she will deepthroat your cock till she gags and lick your ass more than likely she has done that to someone before you, probably quite a few people...lol

GOD · 06-15-2004, 01:17 PM

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I'm still a virgin, our children were immaculate conceptions.

You too, eh?

With that being said, I cannot figure out for the afterlife of me, why so many women call out my name while having good sex

Time for God to get a piece of ass!

Shann · 06-15-2004, 02:50 PM

Men are so insecure which just encourages me more, so the answer is always "more than you!"
haha

jscott · 06-15-2004, 03:14 PM

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Originally posted by pornJester
I plead the 5th

lol i plead the fizith

McAttack · 06-15-2004, 03:39 PM

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Originally posted by Shann
Men are so insecure which just encourages me more, so the answer is always "more than you!"
haha

Haha, the night then changes into a competition, then a fight, and then makeup sex. perfect system!

dokk · 06-15-2004, 04:11 PM

However many partners your partner has had is something I think we all try to lock out.. it's probably best that way.. as they say, when you have sex with a person you're having it with not just them.. but everybody that *they* had sex with.. "do you *reallllly* want to know?" .. anything beyond a rough estimate could get scary. ;-)

Don Soporno · 06-15-2004, 04:19 PM

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lol i plead the fizith

1, 2, 3, 4, 5IIIIIIIIth

sherie · 06-15-2004, 05:33 PM

One million is the standard number that I use. If they persist I get pissed off, it's nobody's fucking business. I haven't dated someone in quite some time that has asked me that. FUCK OFF I don't ask you and you don't ask me, or else you are gonna get the number rounded off to the millionth!

Cold_ice · 06-15-2004, 07:22 PM

I never talk about this nor do I ask my girl about it. I always say as little as possible about the past. I don't even ask how many b/f's and never say any names of any of my old g/f's unless I know we will come in contact with the on a regular basis, just so the isn't anything in the closet.

I was once at a party with a friend and he was a little drunk when along came his ex with another guy, my friend yelled out "how do you like the taste of my dick, those lips have being wrapped around my dick countless times" and ever since he said that every time I see her I think of that. So i think to know how many partners could lead to more questions and that could lead to sleepless nites and a troubled mind.

TondaB · 06-15-2004, 09:35 PM

Wow this is a sticky topic...what is it they always say? Guys add to their list and girls subtract?

Funbrunette · 06-16-2004, 09:25 AM

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Wow this is a sticky topic...what is it they always say? Guys add to their list and girls subtract?

Good one Tonda!

Visualad · 06-16-2004, 10:31 AM