Guys - Do you HAVE to cum every day?

Cyndalie · 07-16-2009, 10:46 AM

How often do men really need to cum?
If you have sex every other day do you really need to jerk off on the off days?
Just curious. I know everyone is different but I'm hoping for some honesty here.

Evil Chris · 07-16-2009, 10:49 AM

What brings this question on? That's what I'd like to know first.

Cyndalie · 07-16-2009, 11:05 AM

I'm just wondering how much sex drive is based on physiological need.

thruma · 07-16-2009, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Evil Chris

What brings this question on? That's what I'd like to know first.

I agree! I see you already answered but I just want everyone to know I agree.

jacobkell · 07-16-2009, 05:57 PM

I never cum,only in dreams which i cannot control.

TheLegacy · 07-16-2009, 07:15 PM

My sex drive is directly related to how much money I have in the bank to pay for hookers

LAJ · 07-16-2009, 09:41 PM

It varies... sometimes a week will go by without the need... other days it might be three times.

Evil Chris · 07-17-2009, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by LAJ

It varies... sometimes a week will go by without the need... other days it might be three times.

That's about right. A week though?

A couple days MAYBE.

LAJ · 07-17-2009, 12:50 AM

Nah... I've gone longer even. Sometimes I just really don't care.

And then other times... oh boy... I CARE.

thruma · 07-17-2009, 08:53 AM

I think it's different for creative people.

We have the ability to channel the sex energy into creative things for a while but then it needs a sexual release and the creative thing just won't do.

I can't speak for LAJ but it sounds like that is what he's talking about.

I have to say though when I was 18 and for many years before I got into my 40's I had to minimum once a day. Usually more. Even with the creative stuff going on.

DonMike · 07-17-2009, 02:42 PM

I always think you need to shoot as often as you can to keep everything working. Like if you don't use it you lose it.

thruma · 07-18-2009, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by DonMike

I always think you need to shoot as often as you can to keep everything working. Like if you don't use it you lose it.

It's also good to not do it so you keep hard for a while. Whacking off to the point of being limp all the time is no fun either.

Reminds me of this mad magazine I saw years ago.
This pic of a guy with the silliest grin on his face with the title "The joy of being horny" lol

Peedy · 07-18-2009, 07:50 AM

Generally speaking for me, I notice when im getting laid on at least a semi consistant basis I rarely have the need to jerk it. However when not, it can sometimes got a few days but usually its at least once a day.

born2blog · 07-19-2009, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by thruma

I think it's different for creative people.

We have the ability to channel the sex energy into creative things for a while but then it needs a sexual release and the creative thing just won't do.

I can't speak for LAJ but it sounds like that is what he's talking about.

this is very true

DonMike · 07-31-2009, 12:15 PM

Well that just looks like an accident waiting to happen.

SexArise · 07-31-2009, 01:11 PM

it depends on what kind of impact she has on you at that moment. It may have been a few days with no jerkin' then you see her and - bam - before you know it you're a 16-year-old again....then again I don't think us fellas ever escape puberty.

Stephane76 · 07-31-2009, 04:08 PM

no, not everyday, but someday 2-3 times

lace · 08-03-2009, 09:33 AM

Every other day, if not every day

LizAEBN · 08-03-2009, 09:54 AM

I think it depends on the guy.

I've known guys that yank their cranks first and last thing every day, regardless of what else is going on. Others will go weeks without - just doesn't occur to them.

*shrug*

(And, yeh, my friends and I are pretty open, so we have had these discussions. *laugh*)

TheLegacy · 08-03-2009, 02:22 PM

Huge difference between "need" and "want".

Vid Vicious · 08-03-2009, 11:44 PM

2-3 times a day ... double that on weekends